The purpose of this unit is to provide
the Parenting Support Specialist (PSS) with an understanding of the family
and healthy family functioning and behaviors. This knowledge will assist
the PSS in helping families to maintain and develop healthy family functioning
and behaviors. By enhancing family functioning, parental competence and
parent-infant interaction will also be enhanced.
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Objectives
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By the end of this unit,
participants will be able to:
- Describe
the concept of family.
- Describe
the functions of the family.
- Describe
the family life cycle.
- Describe
how ethnicity influences family beliefs and behaviors.
- Identify
healthy family behaviors.
- Demonstrate
ways of helping families to maintain and develop healthy family
functioning and behavior.
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Time |
6
hours |
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Outline
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A. Overview/Definitions
and Trends of Families
B. Family Functions
C. Family Life Cycle
D. Healthy Family
Behaviors
E. Ways to Promote
Healthy Family Functioning and Behaviors
F. Family Case Studies
and Practice Sessions
G. Summary and Review |
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Materials
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- Berkey,K.
& Hanson, S. (1991). Pocket Guide to Family Assessment
and Intervention. Baltimore: Mosby.
- Bromwich,
R. (1978). Working with Parents and Infants. An interactional
approach. Texas: Pro-Ed.
- Friedman
(1986). Family Nursing Theory and Assessment. Connecticut:
Appleton-Century Crofts.
- Gillis,
C., Highley, B., Roberts, B., & Martinson, I. (1989). Toward
a Science of Family Nursing. New York: Addison-Wesley.
- Family Case
Study #1 (Training Aid #1)
- Family Case
Study #2 (Training Aid #2)
- Family Case
Study #3 (Training Aid #3)
- Family Life
Cycle (Handout #1)
- 15 Strengths
or Traits Found in Healthy Families (Handout #2)
- Top Stressors
for Families (Handout #3)
- Role Play Feedback
(Overhead #1)
- Post-Unit Evaluation
- Post-Unit Test
- Easel with Chart
Paper; markers or blackboard and chalk
- Video Equipment:
video camera, tripod, tape, VCR, and television
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Advance Preparation
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- Review above
listed references.
- Review handout
materials; make transparencies as needed.
- Try out video
equipment. Set up camera to videotape role play
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A. OVERVIEW/DEFINITIONS
AND TRENDS OF FAMILIES
(45 Minutes)
| Rationale:
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The
purpose of this training session is to help the Parenting Support
Specialists (PSS) to understand the importance of the family unit
for the mother-infant and/or parent-infant interaction. This unit
will also focus on developing an understanding of how the family influences
the health and behavior of the mother and her infant. The PSS will
also learn how to assist the mother to maintain and develop healthy
family functioning and behaviors. |
| Procedure:
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Discussion. Begin
by having participants address the following questions:
- What
does the term "family" mean to each of the participants?
- How
do they think that families have changed?
- What
do they think are the strengths of the families they will be visiting?
- What
do they think will be the needs of the families they will be visiting?
- Combine lecture
and discussion to include the following information:
- 1. Current
Family Trends
- Increase
in single-parent families.
- Increase
of working mothers with young children.
- Women
have fewer children.
- Increase
of the number of women who remain single and care for children.
- Increase
in the number of children who live in poverty.
- Increase
in the number of families where violence threatens the well-being
of the family and its members.
2. Historical
Trends
- Usually
male and female parents were responsible for caring for children.
- Families
were often self-sufficient, they raised their own food, made
their own clothes, educated their own children and provided
their own recreation.
- Having
many children was seen as valuable because children could
work and help support the family.
- Families
stayed close to its members, even when children grew up and
left the family.
- Older
members were often close by to help guide and assist new parents.
3. Family Definitions
- Many
definitions are based on the idealized image of father, mother
and 2 children with a host of extended family members close
by; father = breadwinner, head of family; mother = homemaker.
- However,
today (1990's) only about 14% of American families are really
like this idealized image.
- Ask participants
to give definitions of family. Discussion will probably bring
out these ideas:
- Persons
joined by bonds of marriage, blood or adoption.
- Members
of family usually live together in a single household.
- Family
members interact with and communicate with each other in social
roles such as father-mother, husband-wife, son-daughter, sister-brother.
- Family
shares common culture/beliefs/values.
- Suggest
a Broad Definition of Family: A family is composed of people
(2+) who are emotionally involved with each other and usually
live in close geographical proximity (Friedman).
- Extended
Family: The family of procreation and other blood related
persons; "kin" = grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins.
4. Why is it important
to understand families, family function and family behavior? The family
unit is seen as the basic unit of society and the first social
structure in society that most individuals experience. This
primary social structure is where family members first learn
and practice health promoting and disease preventing behaviors.
Families
are responsible for certain tasks that affect the health and
well-being of each member.
Encouraging
optimal (best possible) health for each family member is an
important part of the family's life style.
Family
Responsibilities Related to Health:
1. Developing
skills in the individual members so they can care for themselves.
2. Provide
family members with sufficient social skills, contact and physical
materials so they can take care of themselves. For example:
-
knowing when a family member is sick or well;
-
how and when to call the clinic or doctor if a family member
is sick;
-
how to get a Medicaid card or other medical card to cover
the cost of a visit to the clinic or to medicines; and
-
how to give medicines to a sick infant.
3. Promoting
independence and individual personality for each family member.
4. Promoting family
behaviors that help to make the family's well-being and quality
of life good for all family members (Berky & Hansom, 1991).
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B. FAMILY
FUNCTIONS (45 Minutes)
| Rationale:
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Families
have certain jobs and roles that its members carry out, usually on
a daily basis. Understanding these functions is the first step in
being able to assist families. |
| Procedure:
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Ask participants
to state what they believe are the tasks/roles of families.
Be sure
to include the following:
FAMILY FUNCTIONS
(Friedman) are:
- Economic:
To provide shelter, food, clothes for all of the family members.
- Confer
Status: To give every member a feeling of importance;
a sense of belonging.
- Education:
Teaching children basic things such as colors, numbers, reading
to children, listening to music with children.
- Socialization
of Children: To help children learn the skills, behaviors
and roles that they will need to get along with others and to
be successful as adults in the society.
- Health
Care: To teach family members how to stay healthy, keep
doctor or clinic appointments, get baby shots, eat properly, sleep
enough, etc.
- Religion/Spirituality:
To teach the family's beliefs and values about life, work,
death, love, God or Supreme beings.
- Recreational:
To play, have fun and relax together.
- Reproductive:
To expand the family by having or adopting children.
- Affective:
To meet the love and belonging needs of family members.
- Protection
of Family Members: To make sure the family members are
safe and kept free from harm (Gillis et al).
FAMILY DEVELOPMENTAL
TASKS:
- Establish and
maintain a home.
- Satisfactory
ways of getting and spending money.
- Satisfactory
ways of dividing work among its family members.
- Mutually satisfying
intimate and sexual relationships.
- Open ways
of intellectual (thoughts) and emotional (feelings) communications.
- Workable
relationships with extended family members.
- Competency
in bearing and rearing children.
- Ways of interacting
and communicating with neighbors and community members.
- Workable philosophy
(beliefs and values) of life.
Today many other
institutions are taking over family functions: Ask participants
to give examples.
Summarize
the discussion with the following examples:
Be sure to include
the following information
Economic
Stability
- WIC, AFDC,
Medicaid, homeless shelters, unemployment insurance
Protection
- Police and
fire departments, social workers, gangs, community/neighborhood
groups
Values/Religion
- Schools,
churches, support groups, television/media, music, peer groups,
industry advertisements
Educate the Young
- Schools,
churches, social groups, gangs, television/media
Confer Status
- Schools,
churches, laws (16 to drive, 18 to vote, 21 to drink), gangs,
peer groups
Today's families
are expected to provide primarily for love, emotional and belonging
needs such as:
- Love
- Intimacy
- Acceptance
- Nurturing
- Caring
- Individuality
- To give
and to be given to
- To share
joy of good times
- To provide
support during hard times
PARENT QUALITIES HEALTHY FAMILIES OPTIMAL INFANT OUTCOMES
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C. FAMILY LIFE
CYCLE (45 Minutes)
| Rationale:
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The family
is ever changing. The changes are predictable. Knowing what stage
the family is in will assist the PSS in helping the family to maintain
and develop its healthy functioning. |
| Procedure:
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Display
Transparency of Family Life Cycle.Handout#1 Explain that each
stage is determined by the age of the oldest child. Ask the participants
to describe the stage of their family. Explain that the discussion
will focus mostly on Early Childbearing Family (Stage II) and Family
with Preschool Children (Stage III). Discuss the Developmental Tasks
and Health Concerns of Stage II and Stage III families.
STAGE
II: EARLY CHILDBEARING FAMILY
Major Parenting Concerns:
- "Parenthood"
is often seen as a crisis
- By "crisis"
is meant that parents may feel unprepared to take care of the
baby. This may include daily care tasks and having the material
items and help from family and friends to be able to take care
of the baby or other children in the family.
- The uncertain
feelings about being a parent may be related to:
- not
being prepared to be a parent either for the new baby or for
the baby plus other children in the family.
- having
ideas that parenting will be "fun all the time" or "easy all
the time" or won't take much time.
- getting
used to new relationships or changes in former relationships
- such as:
- mother-father
- sexual
intimacy
- learning
how the new infant will grow and develop
-
family planning (both birth control and when to have another
baby)
- new
relationships to "kin"
- relationships
with friends and neighbors
Health Concerns of
New Parents
- pregnancy
classes and childbirth classes.
- well-baby
care - going to the clinic or baby's doctor.
- when to
get baby shots (immunizations).
- child growth
and development.
- counseling/knowledge.
- birth control
or when to have another baby (family planning).
- family relationships.
- parenting
(relationships with each other, potential problems).
STAGE
III: FAMILIES WITH PRE-SCHOOL CHILDREN
Major Parenting Concerns
- Safety of
home environment for the toddler and pre-school child such as
protecting from burns, drinking cleaning products or medicines,
electrical injuries, drowning in a bathtub, falls, etc.
- Increased
trips to the doctors office or health care center with children.
- Adequate
childcare or babysitting when parents have to be away from the
infant or other children.
- Having time
alone with that special person.
- Teaching
toddlers social skills and manners.
- Helping
other family members get used to the new infant--helping older
children to get along with the new infant (sibling rivalry).
- Getting
older children (toddler, pre-schoolers) ready for that first separation
from parents (such as babysitters, pre-school or daycare).
- Birth control
or when to have another baby.
- Having time
for yourself and doing some of the things you like doing (private
time/time alone).
Health Concerns for
Parents
- Many childhood
diseases that children may catch such as colds, chicken pox, ear
infections.
- Accidents
(falls, burns, poisonings).
- Time for
couple relationships.
- Brother
- sister relationships (Sibling rivalry).
- Birth control
or when to have another baby (Family Planning).
- Growth &
development education related to their children.
Parenting problems
(setting limits, discipline of active toddler or pre-school child).
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D. HEALTHY
FAMILY BEHAVIORS (45
Minutes)
| Rationale:
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Recognizing
healthy family behaviors will assist the PSS to help families maintain
and develop healthy behaviors. |
| Procedure:
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Review
examples of healthy family behaviors. Display the "15 Strengths or
Traits Found in Healthy Families" Transparency.Handout#2 Have
participants describe what might cause a family to not have these
healthy behaviors -- what are stressors for families. Make a list
on flip chart.Use transparency "Top Stressors for Families"/Handout#3
to conclude this discussion.
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E. WAYS
TO PROMOTE HEALTHY FAMILY FUNCTIONING AND BEHAVIORS
(45 MINUTES)
| Rationale:
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The
PSS will often have an opportunity to assist the family to maintain
and develop healthy function and behaviors. |
| Procedure:
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Discuss
what the PSS can do to help family. The PSS should use the following
strategies for home visits:
- Inquire
about how things are going with mom and other family member.
- Allow
sufficient time for mom to express concerns.
- If
a problem is identified help the mother to use her problem-solving
skills to develop solutions.
- Always
start with describing or praising the strengths she and her family
have previously demonstrated.
- Be
prepared to make referrals if necessary.
- Help
mom to involve all family members in the solution.
- Be
sure to follow-up with concerns at the next visits and/or phone
calls.
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F. FAMILY CASE
STUDIES AND PRACTICE SESSIONS
(120 Minutes)
| Rationale:
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This
session will provide the PSS with the opportunity to use newly gained
knowledge to practice with family scenarios she is likely to encounter
during a visit. Practice will increase the PSS confidence. |
| Procedure:
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Present
the Case StudiesTraining Aids#1,2,3 (3 CASES, ALLOW 40
MINUTES FOR EACH). Have participants work in pairs to:
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Identify the family life cycle stage.
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Describe the family tasks.
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Describe the potential problems.
-
Describe the family's strengths.
-
Describe how the PSS might help the family to identify the
problem and come up with potential solutions.
The Trainer may
have the participants work in pairs. One participant is the client
and the other is the PSS. The client describes the family situation
and the PSS listens and tries to come up with answers to the case
study questions. After the role-play have the total class come up
with the answers to the case study.
Encourage the participants
to review their Resource Manuals and handout materials to prepare
their presentations. After about 15 - 20 minutes have each pair
present their case study and role-play their presentation. Allow
participants to ask questions about content covered or concerns
they may have.
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G. Summary
and Review
| Procedure:
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- Trainer or trainee
should summarize this unit in a general way.
- Review objectives
stating them in the form of questions.
- Handout post-unit
evaluation.
- Distribute post-unit
test.
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Unit 6 Training Aid #1
FAMILY
CASE STUDIES
CASE
STUDY #1: MARY BROWN
Mary
Brown is a 20 year old, first time mother with a 2 week-old infant named
Angela. She stated to the home visitor that this was not a planned birth
and that after she got used to the idea of the pregnancy she had hoped
for a baby boy. Mary lives alone. She completed a two year college program
for data processing. The baby's father has told Mary that he does not
want to be involved with Mary or Angela. Currently Mary receives WIC and
is drawing unemployment insurance. She hopes to be able to find a job
when the baby is 4 months old because that is when her unemployment benefits
stop.
Mary
was a quiet, soft-spoken women who did not maintain consistent eye contact
with the home visitor as she talked. She appeared caring and tender toward
her baby. Angela had been born 3 weeks early. Mary had chosen not to breastfeed
and she was frustrated about how hard it was to get Angela to take her
feedings during the last 2 weeks. Angela does not appear to be gaining
weight. Mary stated that sometimes she feels overwhelmed when she is alone
with her daughter. "I just don't know what to do especially when she is
crying!"
- Identify
the family life cycle stage:
- Describe
the family's developmental tasks:
- Describe
the family's strengths:
- Identify
potential problems for this family:
- Describe how the PSS might
help the family identify family's problems and come up with potential
solutions:
Unit 6 Training Aid #2
FAMILY
CASE STUDIES
CASE
STUDY #2: MAXINE AND BOBBY
Maxine
and Bobby are first time parents of fraternal male twins. Both parents
are very excited about the twins and so are both sets of grandparents.
Maxine and Bobby live with Bobby's family. Bobby and Maxine are both 18,
neither has completed high school nor are employed. They are receiving
WIC and AFDC. Both parents seem very loving and caring toward the babies
and on the surface everything seems to be fine. However, as you begin
to talk with parents you learn more about the family.
The
babies were born 3 weeks early. Maxine says she feels like the feedings
go on day and night nonstop and she gets no sleep at night. Because the
babies were early she knows she has to feed on demand. She states that
"some days they feed every 2 hours, so as soon as I finish with one baby
the other baby is ready to feed. Sometimes, I just want to leave them
in the crib because I never seem to get a break."
Maxine
was getting little sleep, although she tried to nap when she could. She
tried to get Bobby to help with the feedings so she could nap longer.
Now the babies are getting close to four months old and things appear
to be calming down. But now, Maxine and Bobby state the infants want them
to play with them. Both parents state that its hard to keep the house
in order and they have little time to be a couple because Bobby's parents
are always around. Bobby says sometimes he feels left out because Maxine
is either with the babies or she is too tired. Sometimes Bobby just leaves
to hang out with his friends.
- Identify
the family life cycle stage:
- Describe
the family's developmental tasks:
- Describe
the family's strengths:
- Identify
potential problems for this family:
- Describe
how the PSS might help the family to identify the family problems and
come up with potential solutions:
Unit 6 Training Aid #3
FAMILY
CASE STUDIES
CASE
STUDY #3: TARI
Tari
recalls that her labor with Jamal was long and difficult. She thinks that
was just the beginning. Jamal has been to the clinic and the hospital
at least 6 times in his 6 short months of life. Tari is 19 years old and
she has a little girl Tara who is now 3 years old. Tara is according to
her mom a "good girl and she has never been sick".
Tari
works part-time, although she has not been able to work since Jamal's
birth. She lives with her older brother's family. Her brother has given
Tari the extra bedroom. Tari and both children share the bedroom. Jahri,
the father of both babies sends her some money about once a month for
the children, and Tari is receiving WIC. Tari and Jahri get along o.k.
but they don't see each other often. Jahri is a truck driver and he is
away a lot.
Tari
says it takes a lot of time to be a mother, especially with 2 children
and having to get Jamal back and forth to the hospital and clinic. Tari
states sometimes she thinks it is just not fair because she doesn't get
to do things with her friends and she really misses that. Sometimes when
the children's father comes around, he might take them all to McDonald's
and they all like that. Tari states she has very little help from her
mom with either of the children. Sometimes her brother's wife helps a
little with the children and will watch them for a couple hours if Tari
wants to go out. Tari seems to feel comfortable around her children but
she seems to get easily frustrated with all of the activities of both
children. Sometimes, she admits that she doesn't keep appointments because
it's just to much of a bother.
- Identify
the family life cycle stage:
- Describe
the family's developmental tasks:
- Describe
the family's strengths:
- Identify
potential problems for this family:
- Describe
how the PSS you might help the family identify the family problems and
come up with potential solutions:
Unit 6 Handout #1
FAMILY
LIFE CYCLE
STAGE
DESCRIPTION
I BEGINNING
FAMILIES -- STAGE OF MARRIAGE (JOINING)
II EARLY
CHILDBEARING FAMILY -- (oldest = infant to 30 months)
III FAMILIES
WITH PRESCHOOL CHILDREN -- (oldest = 3 - 5 years)
IV
FAMILIES WITH SCHOOL - AGE CHILDREN -- (oldest = 6 -12 years)
V
FAMILIES WITH TEENAGE CHILDREN -- (oldest = 13 + years)
VI
LAUNCHING CENTER FAMILIES -- (from first child to leave home through
the last to child to leave home)
VII FAMILIES
OF MIDDLE YEARS -- (empty nest to retirement)
VIII FAMILIES
IN RETIREMENT AND OLD AGE -- (retirement to death of both spouses)
Unit 6 Handout #2
15
STRENGTHS OR TRAITS FOUND IN HEALTHY FAMILIES
Open Communications with all
Members
- Communicate and
listen.
- Have a balance
of interaction among them.
- Foster time for
conversation or being together.
- Identify problems
and seek help.
Respect for Family Members
- Accept and support
each other.
- Teach the members
family rules, social expectations, etc.
- Develop a sense
of trust.
- Respect the privacy
of each other.
Teach Family Values and Beliefs
- Teach a sense
of right and wrong.
- Have rituals,
traditions and customs.
- Have a shared
religion/values/beliefs.
- Value service
to others (helping others).
- Show a sense of
shared responsibility.
Play and Have Fun Together
- Develop a sense
of humor and play.
- Shared leisure
or recreation time.
Unit 6 Handout
#3
TOP
STRESSORS FOR FAMILIES
Money Problems
Children's Behavior Such
As
- fighting.
- having to clean
them up many times a day.
- having to pick
up toys or clean up after them several times a day.
- always having
children in the way - making it hard for mom to do her chores.
- needing to keep
a constant eye on the children.
Insufficient Couple Time
- hard to find a
baby sitter.
- children are always
around.
- hard to be alone
with each other.
- children interrupt
conversations.
Lack of Shared Responsibility
in Family
- mom having most
of the responsibility for caring for the children.
- having to change
your schedule a lot to meet other people's needs.
- having to take
kids places without help from other family members.
Communicating with Children
- children don't
listen.
- children don't
do what the parent asks.
- children whine,
complain or cry a lot.
Insufficient "Me" Time
Family Play Time
- not enough time
for family members to play or relax together.
- children want
to be entertained all the time.
Unit 6 Overhead #1
Role
Play Feedback
- What
do you think you the Parenting Support Specialist did well?
- What
could the Parenting Support Specialist have changed or done differently?
- What
other things do you think the Parenting Support Specialist might say
or do to help a mother in this situation?
Unit
6 Handout for use at end of each Unit
Post-Unit
Evaluation
Unit
Covered:_____
Date: _____
- Do
you feel we covered all the information in this unit that we said we
were going to?
- What
did you like best about the unit?
- What
did you like least about the unit?
- Was
the information in this unit presented clearly? If not, please explain.
- In
which skill areas do you feel you need more practice or help?
- How
can we make this unit better?
- Any
additional comments?
Unit 6 Post Unit
Test UNIT
6
WORKING
WITH FAMILIES
UNIT
TEST (10 POINTS)
I. FAMILY
CHARACTERISTICS (2 POINTS)
Briefly
describe characteristics of a family:
II. LIST
6 FAMILY FUNCTIONS (3 POINTS)
III. INDICATE
WHICH OF THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS IS TRUE OR FALSE ABOUT FAMILIES (5 POINTS)
- Families
are totally responsible for the education of all their members.
- Families
are expected to provide primarily for the love and emotional needs of
their members.
- Many
new parents feel unprepared or overwhelmed with parenthood or may see
it as a "crisis".
- Some
families may find talking with their children to be a stressor.
- When
the PSS is working with a family it is best to start with the family
problems.